A Ticket Exchange That Changed Everything (July 24, 1915)
A Ticket Exchange That Changed Everything
Things could have turned out differently if my grandmother, a Western Electric employee, had attended the annual picnic on July 24, 1915. But feeling awful due to her pregnancy, she gave her tickets to her 19-year-old sister, Martha Pfeiffer. For Martha, it was a one-way ticket to eternity.
Being thankful is a big deal for me—perhaps it's how I was raised. As a child, I didn't enjoy writing thank-you notes to family and friends who gave me gifts. My mother, who wanted to ensure that she didn't raise a couple of ungrateful miscreants-- stood vigil over me, ensuring I completed my task. She'd occasionally lecture while I wrote, "You don't take advantage of people's kindness and generosity—ever!"
Somewhere along the line, her lessons "stuck," and gratitude became a part of my life.
My mother stands over me now in spirit, reminding me that on this day, a ticket exchange happened, and we all got to live.
On July 24, 2024, I reflect on how different things could have been. Much of my work on my family's history—and now, other families' histories—is a long thank-you letter to all of them.